Everyone has limits to their play. Before I answer any other questions, I’d like to present my list of no-nos. Save yourself the time and frustration; kindly refrain from asking me for any of the following activities:

NO SEX. BDSM play is a special intimacy unto itself.

NO SCAT. That includes  brown showers, enemas, and dirty anal play.

NO INFANTILISM. Although I enjoy roleplay, and domestic discipline, I do not like to play with anyone who regresses to an age that is less than adolescent. Don’t ask me to be your Mommy; instead, try Madame Gina Grant.

NO MEDICAL SCENES.  I do enjoy piercing, cutting, electrical and other edge play - just not in a “clinical” setting. Consult Mistress Simone Kross or Eisanna Eiger about your medical fantasies.

NO WRESTLING. Contact Mistress Josephine.

Where are you located?

The Inner Sanctum is located in San Francisco's Mission District. I also utilize Valhalla Studios in Oakland.

My play spaces are extensively equipped for any adventure we may dream up together. They are privately owned spaces in discreet locations, with parking available nearby. My SF dungeon is very close to public transit.

Do you see novices?

Absolutely. I always love being the first. I do require that you give our session some thought before you call me. Read through the rest of my website, and be prepared to tell me at least three specific activities that you have been fantasizing about, as well as a few things that turn you off. 

Do you see couples?

Yes indeed. If you are part of a heterosexual couple, I require that the female half of the couple contact me to make the session arrangements.

Do you see women?

That’s another big yes. One of my great joys in life is playing with other women. I accept women as submissives and also as apprentices. If you are a fledgling Domina, I’d love to help you hone your skills; I have both male and female personal submissives available to join us.

I can’t come to see you in person...do you offer phone/email /postal sessions?

 I’ve experimented with all of the above, and I’ve come to the conclusion that none of it excites me. I prefer real time sessions - live, up close and very personal.

Can I be your houseboy/personal slave?

I am asked this question often, and my answer is always the same: Would you ask someone to marry you on a blind date? I would not.

 I do have personal servants; however, these relationships have been years in the making. Here’s a tip: be patient and loyal, and perhaps I will ask you to join my stable.

If I clean your dungeon, can I have a session with you?

I do not trade or barter my services. This is my livelyhood as well as my lifestyle.

Do you do outcall/extended sessions/overnights?

 I much prefer that you come to see me, as all of my equipment is in my playroom. On top of that, we won’t have to worry about nosy neighbors or complaints about noise. In my dungeon, no one can hear you if you scream.

Extended sessions are a requirement for heavy bondage and sensory deprivation enthusiasts! I prefer my Oakland location for overnight scenes, although each of my locales have their specific charms. I do travel worldwide if the proper arrangements have been made. 

Do you have any friends like yourself that you like to play with?

Be very careful what you wish for. Madame Gina Grant is my sadistic sidekick. It's truly astonishing that such a beautiful woman can be such a singular force of sheer evil. Check out my links page. The ladies I have listed there are all women I know personally and with whom I have played. I also have friends in the lifestyle BDSM community whom I can contact for specialty scenes.

What is your ideal submissive?

 Someone who is respectful, well-groomed and responsive.

I much prefer to spend my precious time with those who are polite and well-mannered. I will not hesitate to send home those who are rude and obnoxious. Good personal grooming habits are a must if you expect me to get close to you.

I place a high value on responsiveness. There is an ongoing communication that takes place between myself and my submissive - it goes beyond safewords. If the feeling is right, you must let me know.

Please describe yourself physically.

 The pictures featured here are quite honest....but, here are my measurements for the numerically oriented:

  • 5’ 5” - without stiletto heels
  • 36B-27-36
  • corsetted waist size = 22”
  • shoe size = 8 or 8 1/2
  • dress size = 8
  • general clothing size = medium