Take a moment to collect your thoughts before you contact me. Make sure that you have read all of my website before you contact me, paying special attention to the FAQs. By doing so, you will have thoroughly educated yourself about me, my interests and specialties, and our potential compatibility.

I prefer email for our initial contact. Indulge me – choose your words carefully and make sure your email is free of grammatical errors. You may also reach me via cell phone during my regular office hours. My office hours are subject to vary; my outgoing voicemail message will always tell you the best times to call me. I keep my phone conversations clear, polite and brief. If you have a lengthy fantasy you want to run by me, it’s best to do so via email.

Because I share my playspace with other Ladies, it is nearly impossible for me to accommodate same-day appointments. I prefer a week’s advance notice, but I can make do with at least one day’s advance notice.

When you make an appointment with me, I expect to be treated in the same manner that you would any other healthcare professional.

  • Be punctual; if for some reason you cannot make your appointment, call to reschedule or cancel.
  • I expect you to be well groomed; I do have a shower available, but I much prefer that you arrive nook & cranny prepared!

Finally, come with an open mind. I never know exactly what's going to happen when I step into my playroom - I only know that I am going to have a new and different experience. Be ready for anything!

Selina Raven
PO Box 152
Berkeley CA 94701
415-939-OBEY (6239)
MsSelina@SelinaRaven.com