FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS
Where are you located?
I currently use three different facilities in the Bay Area; one in San Francisco, and two in Oakland. My play spaces are extensively equipped for any adventure we may dream up together. They are privately owned spaces in discreet locations, with parking available nearby. My SF dungeon is very close to public transit. To further fuel your imagination, take a look at the gallery on my facilities page.
Do you see novices?
Absolutely. I always love being the first. I do require that you give our session some thought before you call me. Read through all of my website, and be prepared to tell me at least three specific activities that you have been fantasizing about, as well as a few things that turn you off.
Do you see couples?
Yes indeed. If you are part of a heterosexual couple, I require that the female half of the couple contact me to make the session arrangements.
Do you see women?
That’s another big yes. One of my great joys in life is playing with other women. I accept women as submissives and also as apprentices. If you are a fledgling Domina, I’d love to help you hone your skills; I have both male and female personal submissives available to join us.
Do you offer phone/email/postal sessions?
I am currently experimenting with phone and Skype sessions. Send along an email of inquiry. Although I must say, there is nothing like a real time session...live, up close and very personal.
Do you do outcall/extended sessions/overnights?
I much prefer that you come to see me, as all of my equipment is in my playroom. On top of that, we won’t have to worry about nosy neighbors or complaints about noise. In my dungeon, no one can hear you if you scream.
Extended sessions are a requirement for heavy bondage and sensory deprivation enthusiasts! I prefer my Oakland location for overnight scenes, although each of my locales have their specific charms. I do travel worldwide if the proper arrangements have been made.
Do you have friends with whom you play?
Oh, yes, I do. I love the camaraderie and intensity of playing with other Mistresses so very much that I am a charter member of the Bay Area’s notorious Girl Gang. Check out my links page. The ladies I have listed there are all women I know personally and with whom I have played. I also have friends in the lifestyle BDSM community whom I can contact for specialty scenes.
What is your ideal submissive?
Someone who is respectful, well-groomed and responsive.
I much prefer to spend my precious time with those who are polite and well-mannered. I will not hesitate to send home those who are rude and obnoxious. Good personal grooming habits are a must if you expect me to get close to you. I place a high value on responsiveness. There is an ongoing communication that takes place between myself and my submissive - it goes beyond safewords. If the feeling is right, you must let me know.
Can I be your houseboy/personal slave?
I am asked this question often, and my answer is always the same: Would you ask someone to marry you on a blind date? I would not. I do have personal servants; however, these relationships have been years in the making. Here’s a tip: be patient and loyal, and perhaps I will ask you to join my stable.
If I clean your dungeon, can I have a session?
I do not trade or barter my services. This is my livelihood as well as my lifestyle.
Please describe yourself physically.
The pictures featured here are quite honest....but, here are my measurements for the numerically oriented:
- 5’ 5” - without stiletto heels
- 36B-27-36
- corseted waist size = 22”
- shoe size = 8
|
