BIOGRAPHY
I am an artist; the human body,
my favorite medium. I am often asked
how I became a dominatrix. To fully answer that question,
I have to dig into some of my earliest
memories. My mother is a devout Catholic; I spent 12 years
in parochial schools, and the
passion and ritual of Catholicism infused my daily life
as a girl. I spent most morning at
Mass, staring at the crucifix . The continual
contemplation of a beautiful male body in obvious pain
must have set something in motion in my mind.
My Catholic
upbringing instilled in me the following: Pain
is educational, the end result of pain and suffering
is redemption, and it is possible to achieve
a state of spiritual enlightenment through mortification
of the flesh. Our American culture is obsessed
with the cessation of pain. But the deliberate application
of easily moderated sensation can teach
us more about our bodies and our bodily limitations. It
can also encourage us to stretch beyond what we thought
was possible.
With so few formal rites of passage
in our culture, BDSM allows us
to create ritual and make our lives
more meaningful. My move to San Francisco
has given me a community of like-minded individuals
to play with.
I spent my early adulthood playing privately, and am
still an active member of the local SM community. I
began my practice as a professional dominatrix in
1998. In 2002, my skills and expertise brought
me a position on the teaching staff of
Cleo DuBois' Academy
of SM Arts.
My play is limited by a few
guidelines. I never engage in
play that is directly
sexual, illegal, unsafe, or non-consensual. I carefully
negotiate each scene to make sure that I, as well
as my
submissives, get exactly what we need out of the
experience. I am an equal opportunity player; whether
you are woman,
man, trans, bi, queer, dyke, questioning, curious,
exploring or experimenting, I invite you to consult
with me to
make your kinky fantasies reality.
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